Safe Words

Please also check our ethics section

IF AT ANY TIME YOU WISH A PARTICULAR ACTIVITY TO CEASE YOU MUST SAY
"MERCY MISTRESS".

Every BDSM scene requires a "safe word". With the Virginia Mistress, the safe word is always "mercy". If you say 'no', the Mistress may at her discretion continue doing what ever she is doing. She will always respect the word "mercy" which is a signal that you cannot, for any reason at all, continue the present activity. The same safe word applies to Dominant Male/submissive female sessions.

In other BDSM scenes the "safe word" may vary, so it's important that you don't assume anything. Virginia Misress has always used the word "mercy" as a safe word, but it's not sacrosanct. If you play elsewhere, please don't make assumptions. You should set the safe word BEFORE you play.